Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Daphne Gray-Grant has some great tips

I love Daphne's newsletters which show up in my Inbox every Tuesday. They take just a few minutes to read, but they're pithy little gems of information. I also like the word pithy. Here is the latest one:

PW #159 - What the Japanese can teach you about writing

My family and I are moving house at the beginning of March. We're renovating our home and have to park ourselves elsewhere for full year. It's a mega-stressful undertaking -- made somewhat easier because we've found a house to rent in the very next block.

As you can imagine, I've been spending all my spare time thinning stuff. We wore our shredder to oblivion getting rid of old financial documents and we gave away 18 boxes of books last weekend. But I've also discovered a few treasures.

One is the short book One Small Step Can Change Your Life by Robert Maurer a professor at the UCLA school of medicine. I'm embarrassed to admit I received the book as a gift from a friend many years ago -- and the teeny tiny volume somehow buried itself in the stacks of clutter in my office. It emerged from hibernation last week and I read it for the first time. What a winner! And what lessons this book offers.

Subtitled "The Kaizen Way" the book presents the Japanese technique of achieving great and lasting success through small, steady steps. How small? Really small. For example, a single mother who was depressed, exhausted and 30 lbs overweight was instructed to lose weight by marching for one minute while she watched TV each night. One minute!

The woman became so enthusiastic about her success in achieving this modest goal she asked for more exercise. Maurer and his colleague then helped her build the exercise habit, minute by minute. Within a few months, the woman's resistance had disappeared and she enthusiastically embraced a full aerobics workout.

Maurer says Kaizen works because it:

· Unsticks you from creative blocks

· Bypasses the fight-or-flight response associated with fear

· Creates new connections between neurons so that the brain enthusiastically takes over the process of change.

So, how can this help you? Maurer offers six steps which I've listed here. And under each one, I've suggested a "how to" example that's specific to writing.

1) Ask small questions. Ask yourself, "how will I get my book written?" and your brain is likely to shut down. That's because big questions cause fear to arise. Instead, ask incredibly simple questions such as: "If writing were my first priority, what would I be doing today?"

2) Think small thoughts. Spend 30 seconds every day imagining yourself as a successful, accomplished writer. Picture sitting at your computer and seeing your fingers moving quickly across the keyboard. When you're comfortable doing this, imagine what happens when you run out of ideas and then see yourself successfully dealing with the problem.

3) Take small actions. Instead of vowing to write for five hours, spend five minutes writing.

4) Solve small problems. Look for small problems in your writing or writing habits. Perhaps you have a messy desk that distracts you? Maybe you answer email while you're trying to write? Perhaps your mouse is uncomfortable? Pick one problem and do something small to make it better.

5) Bestow small rewards. Big rewards tend to put your focus on the wrong thing -- big projects. Instead, you want to focus on something small. So reward yourself for achieving a small writing commitment. For example, write for five minutes and then reward yourself by watching a show on TV or reading a favourite blog.

6) Identify small moments. Look for what Maurer calls "hidden moments of delight" and note them to yourself. What pleases you about your writing? When does writing feel good? Look for the sense of pleasure rather than pain and celebrate it.

I know this may all sound flakey or trivial, but there's lots of proof that Kaizen works. Toyota reduced many of its automobile flaws with the small step of adding a pull-cord allowing workers to stop the assembly line if they saw a problem. Lance Armstrong uses "small thoughts" to improve his athletic performance.

Why don't you make reading One Small Step your small task for this week?

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A former daily newspaper editor, Daphne Gray-Grant is a writing and editing coach and the author of the popular book 8½ Steps to Writing Faster, Better.

She offers a brief and free weekly newsletter on her website. Subscribe by going to the Publication Coach.

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I'll let you know what small steps I'm making. Hint. It involves a piece of plywood with a stained glass lamp pattern on it. And it has nothing whatsoever to do with stained glass.

4 comments:

DA said...

Great tips, Pam. Thanks for sharing!

I've been using a similar method - promising myself to open my novel and read the last page I worked on, no word or page count commitment, just a promise to read. Of course, my critical editor kicks in and off-an-editing I go. I've edited half a novel in ten days after avoiding it for ten months!

And sorry the Budster didn't make win the contest. Thank goodness his loveabiity doesn't rely on beauty-cutie contests. *g*

Take care,
Deb (baffled over the plywood/stained-glass pattern thing...)

Kathy said...

In the spirit of little things, I really enjoyed Barb Cooper's blog post today http://sothethingisblog.blogspot.com/

Thanks for the reminder, Pam. Sometimes the big goals are just too much to face.

A Novel Woman said...

Deb, not half as baffled as Doug when he came home and saw how I was using it.

Hmmm.

A Novel Woman said...

Kathy, I see a link on that site to NieNie's blog book. Have you been following her journey? Stephanie (NieNie) and her husband survived a plane crash but both were severely burned (NieNie to over 80% of her body) and her sister has been documenting their journey back to health. It's an unbelievable story.